Relief Mixed with Grief When a Loved One Dies

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Death releases a mix of emotions Losing a loved one — parent, partner, dear friend — is an experience often filled with profound grief. But other emotions, like relief, are commonly part of our feelings. It seems cold-hearted to say … Read More

Singer-Songwriters’ Soundtracks to our Lives are Deeper Now

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Joni Mitchell at Newport, Leonard Cohen’s Hallelujah Joni sings “Both Sides Now” with a huskier, deeper voice and an experience that turns the words’ meanings into a song only a musician with a long life could sing. Her voice has … Read More

Strawberry, Morris, and Afternoon Delight at St. Paul Saints

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Early summer, beer, and love of the game — 1996 Darryl Strawberry hit a long, looping home run over the center field fence, and stood just a moment to admire the arc. Jack Morris leaned out from his dugout seat, … Read More

This is My Last Rodeo; Bodacious

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When is courage just stupidity? The streets around the rodeo grounds were blocked off, and vendors sold Western gear, boots, hats, bandanas, and kids’ souvenirs. The stands closest to the grounds sold food — a variety of beef, beer, and … Read More

My Sleeping Beauty Envy Has Morphed

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I want a really deep sleep I envy Sleeping Beauty for that long, deep sleep. I don’t care about the handsome prince anymore — a really good-looking man who acts as if he’s just ridden up on a white charger … Read More

Love and the Writing Life: Ms. Merriwether

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Ms. Merriwether’s Advice to Gentle Reader. Dear Ms. Merriwether, I have always lusted after a professor; not a particular one, just a generic one in a tweed jacket with leather patches on the sleeves. That life seems very romantic — … Read More